Julian was only three and had already been kicked out of two different daycares before his family was referred to A Child’s Haven (ACH). An ACH therapist interviewed Julian’s mother to explore his past and current behavior challenges. Julian’s mother shared about past family trauma including abuse and neglect as well as challenges Julian had expressing his emotions. “Trying to put him in time out is like pulling teeth. He will push the TV over or throw something. He doesn’t know how to act out his frustration. Instead, he acts out in destructive ways.”
Our therapist used conversations with Julian and his mother to develop an Individual Plan of Care (IPOC). These plans help our clinical providers and therapists track Julian’s progress so we can adjust strategies and goals if needed. One week later Julian began attending ACH and he and his mother began learning and healing together.
Julian’s first few days at ACH were tough. To make Julian more comfortable, ACH clinical providers spent extra time with him nurturing and encouraging positive coping strategies when he experienced tough emotions. Our clinical providers found some strategies worked better than others and shared that information with Julian’s therapist.
Two weeks later, Julian’s therapist met with his mother to discuss progress and begin her healing as well. During this first session, the therapist and Julian’s mother discussed positive coping strategies that had been working in the treatment rooms. Julian’s mother couldn’t believe it. She was so relieved to hear that Julian was already having positive experiences and was excited to start using these strategies at home.
During the rest of his time at ACH, Julian made significant progress and eventually obtained all but one of his IPOC goals. Upon discharge, Julian had accomplished emotion recognition, self-awareness and self-regulation skills, and positive relationships with his family and his peers. He also went from having multiple tantrums a day to about three a week. Julian’s mother shared how much their family enjoys being less stressed and how easy daily tasks are now. “Just going to the grocery store with Julian has become so much easier. He also is getting along with his siblings which warms my heart.”
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