A Child's Haven (ACH) hears stories like Julia's all too often. Julia's pediatrician referred the family to A Child's Haven when she was two years old. At the time, Julia’s parents hit a very rough patch in their marriage and had been separated for a few months. After witnessing too many arguments and not having a stable routine, Julia began to shut down. The brave, kind little girl with a bubbly personality became extremely reserved and hardly spoke a word. One of the few things Julia’s parents could agree on was they needed to find a way to help their little girl.
The referral from Julia’s pediatrician prompted our Assistant Clinical Director to contact the family and schedule an intake appointment. During intake, our team was able to sort through details of Julia and her parent’s history. Julia’s father had not experienced childhood trauma, but her mother grew up in an unstable home plagued by domestic violence. Julia’s parents also shared that it was tough to co-parent since their separation. A few weeks later, the family enrolled at A Child’s Haven.
Julia was very reserved and barely spoke, so our treatment providers taught her a few sign language signs to help her communicate until she began speaking more often. Through daily interventions in Therapeutic Child Care and Individual Therapy sessions, Julia’s old personality resurfaced. It started with positive interactions with her peers, then grew into saying words like, “Hello!” and “Thank you!”, and finally led to her singing along to her favorite songs.
This progress was so encouraging to Julia’s parents, and they became more willing to try some of the same parenting techniques in their own homes. Even though they were separated, Julia’s parents still attended Family Therapy sessions together so they could learn how to co-parent effectively. After a few months, they developed a strong co-parenting plan that worked for them and helped Julia continue to make progress. Julia’s parents were thrilled their Child and Family Therapist taught them skills needed to help their child.
One year after beginning treatment at A Child’s Haven, Julia was ready to discharge and transition back into a traditional daycare. Julia is now 5 years old and her parents report she is ready for kindergarten.
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